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Why Learn Focusing

Focusing is an experience, more than words can ever say...

Focusing is a way of being in the world, an experiential way of living from this human body we are blessed to inhabit when we are born. We learn the basics of how to do this from our initial environments: home, neighbors, schools, communities we are exposed to as youth. When we feel a sense of safety from these places, we are more likely to become trusting. There are many layers of trusting. In my experience as a teacher, many people drawn to Focusing are being called to heal trust in one of its many layers. They might say "I don't trust myself." or "I don't trust other people." or "There is more bad than good. Why bother?" 

Trust in the inherent life forward flow of the universe is one essential aspect of Focusing. Gendlin's philosophy and practicing these skills show us that when get out of the way, the steps that come are always toward our well-being (often we are blocking life forward flow from fear). This might be one way you are drawn to learn Focusing. 

Focusing is the essence of Change. 

“It took me a long time to affirm that the ongoing bodily experiencing has its own inherent lifeforwarding implying. The little steps that arise at the edge are creative, imaginative, and always in some positive direction.” Gendlin (2003)

There are many activities or techniques you may already use to help yourself adapt and make changes. Regardless whether you belong to support groups,  meditate, exercise, use gratitude practice, bodywork or somatic methods, therapists, coaches, retreats, etc., underlying anything that changes within us or around us is the experience of Focusing. Over time as we live more of our life from this state of being, we become more at ease with changes in the world around us. 

Ultimate self-empowerment is learning these skills yourself. You may still participate in those other activities AND you will also be more skilled at adapting and moving through life on your own or with a Focusing partnership. A Focusing partnership is an even exchange.

Focusing is a series of natural skills, accessible to All. 

 We will all be doing some of the Focusing skills some of the time. In the First-Time Guided Focusing Session that I offer, we pause after the session to review the beginner skills. I give you examples of where they were in your session. 

Unfortunately, our Western cultures discourage use of these skills and many of us do not access them often in our daily lives. Focusing does require a kind of slowing down that we eventually create as we practice more. It's also been compared to learning a language or learning to ride a bike. We must expect that we'll fall down many times in this type of learning process. And that is ok. 

I consider myself a natural Focuser in that I used them already as an infant and maintained them pretty well despite a typical suburban life style in Midwest USA. I supplemented my skills with nature, music, spirituality and retreats avidly for some of the years I made a lot of changes and before I learned Focusing. Since I've learned Focusing, my skills and ability to live a daily Focusing way has exploded. My regular Focusing partnerships are precious relationships that I value highly. I love my life. It's not that challenges do not arise. Plenty do. It's that I feel equipped, empowered and never alone in meeting them. 

 

Speaking at a Focusing Conference...

Mary Hendricks Gendlin

“I want to ground us to begin with in this point that we all know, which is that Focusing doesn’t belong to anybody. It belongs to everybody... It is the level of a human process, it's free to anybody... So if we cannot be ever confused about that. So that the only thing that we actually care about is that this process would be available and findable by people. Period. It's not a province of experts, it doesn’t belong to therapists, so there is only one intent - that this process that we love and know as life enhancing, life saving, for some of us, would be findable for anybody who has that response to it. O.K.?”

 

More about Inner Relationship Focusing and how I teach it

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Inner Relationship Focusing was developed by Ann Weiser Cornell and Barbara McGavin. It is a way to learn and practice Focusing that I find very approachable. It would work well in schools as there is an emphasis on language and simple kindness to ourselves and others. Click HERE for an article by Ann on the Origins of Inner Relationship Focusing.

I did my certification in Ann's program. This means I was trained to teach her method. I still do. I also have made it a point to explore other ways of learning Focusing, particularly Wholebody Focusing, TAE: Thinking at the Edge and Social Oriented Focusing. I have added aspects of these that work well with the people that tend to be attracted to my courses.

I have been a neuroscience geek for years and am familiar with a lot of the popular writers - Daniel Siegel and Stephen Porges for example. I find Iain McGilchrist's work particularly relevant to learning Focusing and have created handouts and exercises for all of my courses.

I will always continue exploring how other people teach Focusing and adapting what I do. This helps me immensely in my goal of meeting people where they are.

Why would I want a Focusing partnership?

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Answer...

Living a Focusing Way of Life

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Living a Focusing way of life becomes a goal for us all somewhere along the way. For many, it comes when they experience a random moment where they accessed the power of the pause and found themselves seeing a bigger picture and acting in ways that feel really good to their whole self. I love to hear these stories in class or via email.

I'll talk about practical ways to do this gradually in sessions and from our first class onward. Essentially, we'll each find our own way. If our environment has others interested in self-empowerment in the ways Focusing brings, we'll have each other to lean on and give support. If our environment is not as supportive, we'll need to create space and structure to give ourselves opportunities to practice. We can use our Focusing partnership to become clear on how to do this for ourselves.

Sandy Jahmi Burg

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sandyjahmi@gmail.com

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